We've had our clashes over the years. It's hard not to when so many of you are politically indoctrinated into opposing mine & your own human rights. However, despite the fact that many of you think I hate you, I actually have a place in my heart for gay men who get "the surgery".Why? Because I see this phenomenon for what it is: the result of a society that spent generations telling young, effeminate bottoms that they were subhuman. That the only way for them to find acceptance in the world was